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You’ve gone through a lot of hard work to get your online dating profile set up. This is done for one specific reason; to get your profile to stand out among all the other profiles on the site. You’re hoping that others will want to get in contact with you to find out a little more about you.

The culmination of all of this effort materializes in your email inbox. You should start getting unsolicited emails and notifications from people who are hoping to get to know a little more about you.

You open up the email, and you click the link to take a loog to know a little better. If so, I recommend you craft a response back to them in a prompt fashion.

That’s the best case scenario; however, what is the proper etiquette for responding to someone that you’re not interested in?

This question is up for debate among dating experts, with the schools of thought pretty evenly divided.

Option #1: Don’t Respond

Some experts suggest that there is no need to respond back to someone that you just aren’t interested in. They feel that you are under no obligation, and that this is one of the perks of using an online dating service. You can get to know as many people as you like, without having any strings attached.

Option #2: Respond

Put yourself in their shoes. If you found someone of interest you would send them an email (or wink) over to them to show your interest. You’re not expecting this person to drop everything that they’re doing to respond to you, but you are hoping to hear something back in a timely fashion.

We’re all grown ups, and rejection is a part of life. We don’t enjoy it, but in dating it’s just a part of the process. I would rather be told no than to than to not get any response at all.

I think it’s just as easy to take a few minutes of your time to respond back. Although I’m a big fan of personalizing each correspondence I make, in this instance I don’t see the need to do so. Just come up with a set response, save it as a file, and copy and paste it into emails as needed.

Here’s an example that you can use:

“Thank you very much for your interest. I’m flattered to hear from you, but after taking a few minutes to read through your profile, you don’t seem to share many of the interests that are important to me. Good luck with your dating search and best wishes!”

You’ve given the person the common courtesy of a response while at the same time you’ve let them know that you’re not interested. If they decide to respond back asking why, I think at that point you’re not under any obligation to respond.

How difficult is that?

It’s challenging- one of the major reasons why women prefer bad men is simply due to the reason that bad men are more challenging than the nicer ones and this is common human nature that we always go for the things which are not easy for us to get and which provide us the challenge. Nice guys are often too easy to get therefore women think you can find one anywhere.

More confidence- Another reason why women go for bad men are simply due to the reason that bad men are more confident and more assured about themselves when it comes to the matter of self-esteem and being comfortable with oneself. Nice men are often low on self-esteem and confidence which becomes one of the reasons why they always end up finishing last.

Interesting- One of the major positive traits which bad men have is that they know how to achieve a woman amused for a long amount of time. Nice guys are often known to be boring and uninteresting due to the fact that they don’t have anything much to offer women due to which the finish last.

All being in the “friend zone” means is that she does not want to become sexually involved with you or be anything other than friends at the present time.

Can you change her mind or ever become more than just friends her?

Perhaps, but odds are that it isn’t ever going to happen.

However, you can use her to meet and attract other women if you start treating her like a friend instead of a girlfriend.

When women see you out with other women for a variety of reasons you are not seen as a threat or someone who they should keep their guard up with.

Once you are put in the “friend zone” you must decide if you can let go of your attachment to her as being the one.

If this is something you can not see yourself doing then the “friend zone” is completely worthless to you and it is in your best interest to move on.

Yet, if you can let go of your attachment to her as the one and now begin seeing her as truly just a friend; she will open doors for you with women that you never knew were possible.

Of course, the only way you will know for certain that you have let go of your attachment to her as the one is if you can approach and meet other women in her presence.

This is also assuming you have already begun to work on improving those things that put you in the “friend zone” in the first place.

Otherwise you will simply wind up being in the friend zone with a whole lot of women which after a certain point becomes worthless as well.

In fact I would state that there is a bit of discrimination. Look at the Valentine Day cards. All are designed for men to proclaim their romance to a girl. There are hardly any cards that allow the women to tell about their love. A casual look at the cards will show that they are made keeping the feminine gender in mind. So how should to go ahead and romance a man? Here are the 3 best ways to romance a man that every woman should know!

1. Romance A Man By Using His Emotion

While women love to be romanced with trinkets, jewelry, flowers and chocolates, men like to be romanced with emotion. In fact, this is one of the best ways to romance a man. These emotions can be proclaimed in quite a number of ways. Suppose he loves a particular brand of chewing gum. The next time you meet him, make sure that you have some of those chewing gums with you and pass on the same to him. These little acts go a long way in romancing a man and making him feel that he is cared for.

2. Romance A Man By Paying Attention To The Small Things

He might not like the pimples on your face. While it’s okay that you spend time to remove the same, there is no need to announce the same to him or to show off that you are removing the same for him. Do it discreetly and when he is not about. Applying the acne removing cream in his presence is not a wise idea.

He will find out for himself and at that time, your unblemished face will go a long way in showing off your romance for him. So it is better to let him discover these joys instead of proclaiming the same to him. Let it be a surprise to him.

3. Romance A Man By Understanding His Views On Romance

There are many men who act like children. For them a romantic thing might well be playing a round of cards with his woman. Never impose yourself and your views. You might think romance is having a candlelight dinner, but it is not necessary that he looks at romance from the same angle. Try to find out what is his definition of romance and try to adjust yourself to his views.

This will go a long way to show that you really care for him. The best way to romance a man is to do it the way he perceives romance. Never try to push your views. As your romance builds, he too will try to find out what is your idea of romance and be sure that he too will reciprocate.

Thought-provoking first date questions that cause the other person to think will automatically give you high marks in their books. Most people want to feel challenged. They want someone on the same level as them. So, if you ask something along the lines of “where do you want to be in five years?” you’ll get a great sense of who your date is. Their goals will tell you a great deal about the type of person they are and whether or not you are compatible.

Asking the question, “If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be?” can be an excellent thermostat to measure a person’s self-confidence and humility. It can be refreshing to hear someone note their flaws. Similarly though, it can be a real drag to hear a mile long list of why the person doesn’t feel like they measure up. Your partner’s self-perception and self-esteem will play a huge part in any potential relationship. You never want to find yourself responsible for someone else’s happiness.

Another thought-provoking question to ask is, “what are you looking for in a relationship?” This can be a good way to gauge whether or not you are on the same wavelength. If you are looking to have some fun and the other person wants to have a baby, you might want to reconsider that second date! Making expectations clear upfront reduces stress and allows you to focus on the other person rather than on what comes next.

While asking first date questions requiring serious answers is great, you do want to remember that this is still a first date! You don’t want your date to leave reconsidering everything he or she has ever wanted in life. Don’t force them to delve too personally into themselves and always inject lots of humour into any conversation. A good sense of humour is one of the top qualities any person looks for in a partner. So, after you’ve had a deep conversation, lighten things up by asking something like, “how could a person royally screw up a first date?” That will get them laughing, but it will also help you avoid an upcoming pitfalls.

Fun first date questions also give you great insight into a person’s character. Asking something like, “what was your most embarrassing moment?” allows the two of you to laugh together, but it also helps you gauge how well the other person handles the unexpected. If your date describes it as the “worst experience of her life,” you might want to choose someone a little more easygoing. Life isn’t going to be perfect…you want someone who can laugh at the crazy situations that inevitably come up.

As much as you might feel like you’re being scrutinized on a first date, remember that the other person feels the same way. Engaging in some interesting first date questions is a sure-fire way to get past that initial awkwardness. Have fun with it, don’t take yourself too seriously and always listen to what the other person has to say with sincerity. Every date is a learning experience that helps with the next one!

Tip 1: observe what she’s doing with her hair

Is he she playing with her then she definitely fancies you. If she is twirling it in her hands, or revealing her neck these are subconscious signals that she’s into you.

Tip 2: watch her finger actions

Fingers are very closely linked with the sexual act and as such are very revealing. Watch her fingers closely. Is she starts fondling or stroking her face, neck, chest, arm, thigh or leg in your presence then she is subtly seducing you. She may not even realise she is doing it. If she if she plays with her lips, teeth or tongue that is a dead cert!

Tip 3: pay attention to the position of her body

How is her body placed in relation to yours? If she is leaning towards you, or if her legs or shoulders are pointed towards you then this is a good body language sign. She really likes you! By moving closer to you she is subtly saying that she wants to get even closer! However if her arms are crossed, or if she is leaning away from you then these may be negative body language signs. Maybe she is weary of you. Crossing the arms is a defensive stance and this reveals that she might be intimidated or put off by you.

Tip 4: look at her eye movements

If you spot a woman and she is looking at you then she looks away and then looks at you again, but with a slight downwards glance, she definitely likes you. The downward glance reveals her shyness so now would be a prime time to approach her. Look closely at her eyes. If she smiles and looks away, this is always a positive sign. If she looks into your eyes for a long time, again, you’re in there. Beware however of the woman that never makes any eye contact, or one who looks away, or around her a lot. These are the signs of someone who is disinterested or bored.

Tip 5: look out for any seductive movements

These signs reveal the most about a woman’s inner thoughts. She is also most likely doing these consciously, so you catch sight of any of these, count yourself lucky! Is she stroking her leg or chest, is she subtly revealing parts of her body to you? Is she dangling one shoe with her feet whilst in a crossed leg position? If she is doing any of the above she is trying to seduce you and entice you into bed.

These easy tips are invaluable in the quest to read, understand and ultimately seduce women.

Compliments are always a great thing to give out to anyone you admire. The thing is, compliments must be sincere to work. People can always tell when you aren’t being honest and it will ruin any plans you have. Another thing to consider is the type of compliment you give out. Women are used to men telling them they have a great smile or great eyes. Forget the standard go-to flattery. Admire things that take work to see. For instance, say “You are one of the smartest women I’ve ever met.”

We always want to bring out the best in other people. Telling someone how they affect you and the way you think is one of the most romantic things to say. Women especially want to feel like they have an impact on the way you think and feel. Try something like, “You make me want to explore the world because you are so well-travelled.” Explain to her that you want to be a better man because of her. That is the ultimate compliment.

A common complaint many people have is that no one listens to them. We spend so much talking about unimportant things, that our true hopes and dreams get neglected and ignored. One of the most romantic things to say doesn’t involve saying anything! It’s all about asking questions. Ask your date what he or she wants out of life. Ask them something like, “What would you do if you knew you could not fail?” He or she will be totally blown away. We aren’t used to being interested in and it will undoubtedly leave a very positive impression of you.

Every day we play a role. Whether it be father, friend, employee or coach, we are different things to different people. One of the most romantic things to say to someone is that they allow you to be yourself. Saying something like, “I connect the truest part of my being to you. When I forget who I really am, all I have to do is look at you to remember.” That will create a bond not easily broken.

A statement about your future together can make a good date extraordinary. It doesn’t have to involve a lifetime commitment or even a declaration of love - it all depends on the stage of your relationship. It does have to show that the other person has had a lasting impact on your life. For instance, you could say something silly along the lines of, “I’ll never be able to eat sushi again without thinking of how you crinkled your nose at that tuna.” Or you could also be more serious by saying something like, “A life without you pales in comparison to a life with you in it.” Talking about the future instantly connects a couple.

Sincerity is the backbone to any romantic gesture. Never say anything you don’t mean and always use your own words. Reading a great line in a book might not translate well into everyday conversation. Play it straight from the heart and your partner will forever lock into memory all the amazingly romantic things you’ve said.

1) Start dating again. Once you start dating you will start to notice something funny happen in the way your ex treats you. Often they become jealous and start to miss what they once had just because someone else now has it.

2) Get a makeover. This could be for either guys or girls. I am not saying a literal makeover, but just doing things to make you look better. Start exercising, get some new clothes or get a new haircut. What ever it is change something up to make you appear more attractive. Your ex will surely take notice.

3) Make yourself scarce. Often our ex’s like knowing that we are waiting around for them. They keep us at bay for the day they finally decide what they want to do. Don’t be the fall back. Don’t make yourself readily available for your ex and see what happens.

4) Move on with your life. Getting out and doing things is the exact opposite of what our ex’s think we will do. When they see that we are moving on and moving forward they have a natural tendency to want us back just because we are doing so much better with the break up. Get out and have fun and you will notice some good things happening.

5) Change for the better. Once your ex sees the new and improved you, they will definitely want you back in their life and start to miss you. Seeing something that they lost that is now much better has a strange effect on people.

Follow these steps to make your ex miss you and you will see what a difference it can make.

With this ability, you won’t have to guess whether they’re enjoying your company or not. And you can decide right from the start whether you’ll continue to pursue the relationship.

Here are 4 tips on interpreting female body language to help you determine her level of attraction to you.

Tip # 1 - Observe What She Does To Her Hair.

If she starts caressing or combing her hair when you look at her, she’s trying to impress you or look more attractive in your presence. If she tosses her hair to reveal more of her skin, then there’s a big chance that she fancies you.

Tip # 2 - Watch Her Finger’s Actions.

If she starts fondling her face, neck, shoulder, chest, arm, thigh or leg in your presence, she’s seducing you to take more notice of her. She’s interested in you and wants you to make your next move. Interpreting this female body language signal is easy since it’s quite obvious how she purposely uses her fingers to draw your attention.

Tip # 3 - Pay Attention To Her Body Position.

If she’s leaning towards you, then she’s attracted to you. If her shoulders and knees are pointing towards you, then that’s an even better body language sign. She’s mesmerized by you.

However, beware when she’s leaning away from you. That means she’s trying to evade you and is a clear sign of disinterest. If she crosses her arms, she’s putting herself in a defensive stance and wants to stay as far away from you as possible.

Tip # 4 - Keep An Eye On Any Seductive Movements.

Is she subtly revealing her chest, thighs or legs to you? Even better, is she stroking them? Is she always wearing sexy outfit that exposes more of her skin when she’s with you? Is she dangling one shoe with her feet while in a crossed leg position? Watch for these seductive female body language signs. She’s conveying her attraction to you and enticing you to make your move.

Interpreting female body language signals is very simple and easy. What she does with her hair and fingers, as well as her body position, can easily reveal her inner emotions. Take a cue from her actions and notice if she’s trying to captivate you. Use these body language tips in your girl-hunting pursuits and have a great time.

So obviously, being able to tell whether someone likes you or not is one of the most important things in the world. It can affect your entire life. Here’s how you can find out if someone likes you without potentially making a fool of yourself.

1) Don’t watch him, watch his friends. If a guy likes you, his friends know it, trust me. So even if he’s playing it cool or is hard to read, his may be exchanging “knowing glances”, possibly teasing him, smiling at each other, even nudging him. Watch is friends!

2) Watch what he does - Is he staring at you? Do his eyes linger? Does he try to smile? Does he try to start conversations? Those are all indications that he likes you. Stepping in and standing close is a good tell-tale sign, because he’s entering “personal space” or allowing you into his personal space.

3) Any touching - Even touching that you wouldn’t think seems like an advance is a good sign. Patting you on the shoulder, rubbing your arm a little… anything where he finds an excuse to touch you may mean he likes you. (Just like with little boys who used to hit and harass girls, they like, his physical affection may come out weird at first.

4) Does he seem nervous around you? Does he show off (even in inappropriate ways) or brag, talk about himself to you, seem uptight? Because if he likes you and he’s not sure if you like him, he IS nervous!